I resolved this myself (after not following my own advice)
It WAS an issue with the Security group.
The managed directory service group sets outbound connections are only allowed to the domain controllers that it created.
I added the rule to allow all ports out to the DC that I am trying to get to & all was good.
Able to crete & verify trusts.
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