Dear Customer, Thanks for reaching out to AWS re:Post.
When RDS instance is stopped a "hidden" snapshot is taken by RDS (even when the snapshot option is not ticked by customer) - this is by design. That is usually the reason for the delay.
But to gain more perspective on your RDS instance, a support case with Premium Support would help.
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